Can't this be simplified so I just don't have them running on both computers at the same time but I can switch back and forth?!?!?
If you do just that you won't have problems.
Make sure you switch off on one computer before starting on the other one.
Looking at the records here, I can see that at around 6PM CEST you had both of them running and that's where the problems start.
There's no intention in locking a program like you describe. If you can send me a debug log of the one you had to kill I can try to improve the situation. Once you kill AbelCam, it won't report that it's off and my end assumes it's on until the next time it would report.
You may see your usage time here: http://www.abelcam.com/en/licenseusage?lickey=[Your License Key] - and you'll see how long you'll have to wait before you can use your license as expected.
I have been
very tolerant with license usage a long time and people have abused licenses a lot. I'm sorry that the restrictions I had to implement hurt on your end.